Yesterday’s post reminded me of the importance of teaching our children well. They are watching everything we do, even at church.
A family was riding home from church one afternoon and the father was complaining about the pastor going past the noon hour and the fact that he has missed the first inning of his favorite team. The daughter was distraught with the fact that her boyfriend sat in a row with another young lady and the mom was commenting on what she thought was the poor quality of some members of the worship band. After a couple of moments of silence the little six year old brother commented from the corner in the back seat “Well, I thought it was a pretty good show for a buck”.
Parents remain the primary teachers for our children. What I value as a dad has certainly influenced my children. I know that my son learned to enjoy camping, hiking and backpacking primarily because he and I would spend a week camping every summer during his childhood. It was something my father passed on to me and I have shared with my son. I also know that my children highly value their education because my wife stressed its importance from an early age. She was constantly seeking ways to enhance their learning beyond the classroom, helping each child reach his or her full potential.
The same is true for spiritual formation, from prayer to Bible reading, from stewardship of finances to volunteering. As parents we are the primary models of what it means to follow Jesus Christ. Our words and actions are being watched each Sunday morning as well as the rest of the week. Are we being models that reflect God’s grace and power?
Hear, O Israel: The Lord is our God, the Lord alone. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might. Recite these words to your children and talk about them when you are at home and when you are away. Deut. 6: 4-7
O God, giver of all life, provide wisdom and encouragement to all mothers and fathers. Make them teachers and examples of righteousness for their children. Let their light shine brightly so that their children can discover the path to you, our Lord and Savior